It appears my last post has stirred some debate and a number of opinions have arisen to the way in which this has been organised.
Firstly i have learnt in life that you can not always please everyone. People will always agree and disagree based on their own opinions.
While i do not intend to get caught up in a long debate on the way this has been organised i will clarify and point out a few things.
Many of the wines to be consumed in this dinner actually do not come from my own cellar. They come from the cellar of a very good friend of mine (Gavin) who does not participate in online forums mainly due to his own lack of knowledge with computers and the internet. While not all of these wines have been cellared by Gavin or myself from purchase the provenance is known on all of them and to the best of our knowledge it is very good.
The amount of money requested from each person attending is to cover the cost of the wines only, we have not added anything extra. This has been split equally amongst everyone (including myself). I believe this also helps share any risk evenly and fairly from a financial perspective.
The suggestion to bring backups for some of the wines to be consumed as well as other backups and the way we should handle cost was suggested by and discussed with some of those who are attending. The way in which this could be done was also discussed. If any of the wines are dead and we split the cost of opening other wines i too am paying my share there is no special treatment for myself or anyone else.
We have no intention of forcing anyone participating to be a part of something they do not wish to be a part of. There is no intention of malice or anything unethical on mine or Gavin's part in bringing this occassion together.
The question of generosity i believe is in the eye of the beholder. Those who know me and those who will come to know me over time will be more qualified to answer this question.
While we could open and enjoy these wines on our own or with other friends who may or may not appreciate them we decided to do something a little different. We have invited the opportunity to make some new friends who would appreciate such wines and savour the opportunity as we do in trying these wines.
This also allows someone who does not have these wines or access to them the opportunity to try them (including myself). I personally am very greatful to my friend Gavin for giving myself and others the opportunity to partake in such a wonderful opportunity.
There has also been quite a considerable amount of time, thought and energy gone into the planning of this evening and i, as i am sure all those who attending will agree, am very much looking forward to this evening and sharing with you all the outcome here in the forums.